A few weeks ago I posted this video I made with Rob Judge about his technique “the blockbuster preview kiss“.
I got a lot of questions about that technique. So I sent Rob the questions, and he answered them here.
Do you go for the kiss without getting “signals” that she’s ready? How much time into the interaction are we talking about?
Don’t focus so much on signals. The only signal you should be looking for is that the girl is talking to you. There’s no social contract that forces people to talk to random guys. If you’re chatting her up, she knows you’re hitting on her and she WANTS you to escalate. (If she didn’t, she’d make up some excuse not to talk to you.) So, really, the only signal you need is the girl in front of you.
As for the amount of time, it’s really your call. You can go for the kiss within 5 minutes of meeting a girl if you’d like. Usually I pull this out after about 10 minutes, when I have the girl isolated. Even if she doesn’t go for the kiss, she won’t get offended or angry. In fact, I’ve been with girls who’ve told me afterward that they found my “aggressive confidence” and huge turn on. Don’t be shy, don’t hold back. Do what you want to do
Best to try when she’s alone or with friends? Cuz hot women are very hard to find alone….
It’s best to do it when you have her isolated. That means she probably came with her friends (because you’re right, hot girls always travel in packs) but you separate her from her friends to a more secluded area of the bar. I sometimes even move girls 10 feet away–just enough room so she feels it’s “you and her.” NOT you, her, and her friends
Extra tip: When you isolate her, try to turn her body away from her friends so she can’t see them. If she’s constantly looking back at her friends, then she’ll feel insecure and uncomfortable about enjoying the kiss with you.
Extra EXTRA tip: Great ways to isolate girls are simply saying, “Hey, it’s a little noisy here and I’m enjoying getting to know you. Lets move over there where it’s more quiet.” or something to that effect…
Hope that helps
>>>Check out The 4 Elements of Game for more great tactics for picking up women.
Best,
ROB
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