How to Stand Out From the Other “Orbiters” in Her Life
Awhile back, many of you filled out a survey and one of the questions that many of you asked was:
“How do I standout from other guys…”
The thing I’ve been trying to get across to you over the past couple months is that by using this “sexy” small talk I’ve been teaching… you will automatically differentiate yourself from the crowd.
What exactly is “sexy” small talk?
I refer to “sexy small talk” as conversation that is fun, playful, and flirtatious.
For a long time I only had two modes; either I was in boring “interview” mode or I was in deep rapport talking about serious topics.
What I realized is that most real attraction takes place during the light, playful, back and forth banter that takes place early in a conversation.
Once you really begin to understand this; a whole new world opens up.
I used to think that I had to talk to a girl for awhile and have this incredibly intense conversation to get her attracted to me… but that’s just not the case.
In fact, a lot of times having an intense conversation with a woman creates too much rapport- and it’s impossible to pull back and shift gears into a more sexual realm.
What’s great about “sexy small talk” is that you can whip it out anywhere. Whether you’re in class talking with a classmate, at your job, in the bank, or a grocery store… you’re just ALWAYS ON - and you’re the guy that women want to talk to…
This doesn’t mean you’re going to get 100% of the girls you’re talking too. But it does mean that no matter who you’re talking to your both going to enjoy the conversation.
It beats the hell out of that boring, ‘try hard’, conversation that most of us have suffered through at some point.
And since most guys aren’t doing this… you immediately stand out as a guy who “gets it”
Hope that clarifies what “sexy” small talk is.
If you want to read more about it, check out the information on my course Conversation Escalation: Make Small Talk Sexy
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It’s amazing how easy it is to stand out from other guys using the stuff you go into here. Just a bit of playful, flirting banter with a girl, along with being a cool, confident guy is all it takes. Great post.
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