Does She Like You? Or Is She Just Being Friendly?
I constantly get a ton of questions asking how to tell if a girl likes you.
A lot of dating advice gurus out there advise looking for indicators of interest (IOIs) that a girl is attracted to you. While indicator’s of interest can be helpful in judging a woman’s interest level… I prefer to actively “test” her attraction levels instead of passively waiting for signs she likes me.
These two videos detail my two favorite “attraction tests”
The first video below, explains an active “attraction test” I like to use when I’ve developed some rapport with a woman and I want to tell if she likes me… or is at least comfortable around me.
“The Hi-Five Test”
This next video details a verbal “attraction test” I use to get a woman’s reaction to something I say to judge her interest level. This is a great way to tell if a girl likes you.
“My Wife and Kids”
So, these are my two favorite ways on how to tell if a girl if a girl likes you. If you have any other “tests” you use to tell know if a girl like you or is attracted to you… leave a comment below.
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Great ideas Bobby!
The wife and kids thing is brilliant.
Another thing I do.. and I think I learned this from you… is ask a girl if she wants a sip of my drink… normally, if the girl feels comfortable with you.. she’ll take a sip. This only really works if you’re drinking something other than beer… and works best if you’re drinking an exotic drink
I’ve used the handshake test, and agree it works pretty good. How can I tell if a girl is ready to be kissed… is that “kiss test” i always read about legit.
Does anybody have any suggestions? I always feel like I blow it.
I just found you and added your blog to bookmarks. These are the exact types of tips I’ve been looking for… simple things that help me understand women more…
wish i had more to offer in advice. But i’m new to this, and for now I’ll just learn from you
My wife really liked your tips Bobby. Haha, nice couple of tips you got here.
great post as usual!
“My wife and kids…” Great stuff, goes straight to the matter ; I’ll def try that !
Keep up the good work! Funny thing is that I find myself using many of these same tips when I’m chating up women.
Your High 5 test is very similar to Lance Mason’s hand test. If he wants to hold her hand without anyone noticing it he will simply pull their hands behind him while standing next to her and talking to everyone else. Then, he can play with her fingers and have a “conversation” with her and no one knows about it!
originally from Mystery the old casanova:
1.shake hands, don’t let go, instead do this finger-wrestling-stuff
if she trys really to wrestle your thunb down chances are good she’s into you
2.offer her both hands and touch her lightly with hands in hands
move your hands up and down, back and forward while talking to her
if she follows: gues what it’s good news
but don’t forget to be a cheeky arsehole and push her hands away while still talking to her, no matter if she’s into you or not
@phil: if you kiss her in public, you ruin your chances to take her home, if you took her home, give her 10min to feel save(nice unsexy music) offer a drink, take the drink out of her hands and just kiss her I prefer to kiss her the corner of her mouth first