Does “Eye Contact” Mean She Likes You

by Bobby Rio

If She Looks Looks at You… Does She Like You?

Wanted to address something real quick.

And you might not like it.

But it must be said.

Cuz everyday I get emails that go something like this:

“There is this girl in my Math class {serving me coffee at Starbucks, that I pass in the hall, that I see around around campus, or that I work with…}

“And we make eye contact… And I’m pretty sure that she likes me.
How should I ask her out?”

I hate to break it to you…


Eye contact does not equal attraction.

At best it equals interest.

And if you don’t turn that interest into attraction…

…You got NOTHING.

Guys think you can skip over the attraction phase… but unless you
look like Brad Pitt…

You can’t.

So what do you do?

Before you decide to go for hernumber, confess your feelings to
her, or ask her on a date…

Create a spark of ATTRACTION by FLIRTING with her…

How do you do that?

The best and easiest way to flirt with a girl is to tease her about

…So that girl in class

Jokingly call her a “teacher’s pet” if she raises her hand too much…

…Or a brown noser when she gets the answer right….

That girl walking hurridley past you in the halls…

Tell her that she walks around like she’s on a top secret misson…

That girl serving you your coffee…

Next time you go to pay for your Latte as she reaches for you money… pull it away…

Then go to hand it to her again… when she reaches for it… pull it away again before giving it to her…

That’s creating a little tension…

A little flirtation.

When you “tease” a woman… she knows the deal.. she knows you’re flirting…

(…as long as you’re doin it right.)

And flirting is the first step toward creating attraction…

Once you created a spark of attraction,then you can go for the phone number,or see if she wants to hang out

But you CAN’T SKIP that part.

You have trouble doin this?

Don’t know what to tease a girl about?

Don’t worry.

I got something for you.

And its free.

It’s called the Teasing and Banter
cheat Sheet.

There’s lines it in that you can use in a dozen differnet situations.

And they work.

Grab it here.

And stop worrying ‘is she looking at me’ and just make it happen.


P.S. If you want a complete education on sparking attraction in a girl, through the use of 5 tools that ALWAYS help create attraction…

Check out Amplify the Attraction

{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }

From a girl April 28, 2011 at 9:59 am

if i work in starbucks and someone did that to me, i would just think ‘lol what a jerk..’
its true that you probably made a deep impression in the girl’s mind but it wont be a good one
unless you look like brad pitt

BD August 6, 2011 at 11:28 am

And yet I see girls like you out with that guy all of the time. If you are so smart and immune then you put in what works.

Jim B November 3, 2011 at 8:54 am

It just doesn’t make sense to most guys that a woman would step into a conversation like this and give the typical girl (WRONG) advice. The woman making the above comment does not understand the context or the attitude of how this suggested action at the Starbucks counter is really happening in the first place. She is assuming that the first interaction you have with this woman is playing with the money and of course that’s going to send the “Jerk” vibe across.

This is a playful interaction and therefore you (as a man) are bringing this attitude of playfulness to the interaction. You are setting the tone for how you will be thought of by her and acting as if she is already doing it. Playfulness is contagious more often than not and the girl will follow your lead here. If she doesn’t, she was probably having a bad day before you got there anyway and that’s not about you.

In the initial interaction, you walk up to the counter feeling great and showing a GENUINE smile at her when she is taking your order. Following your lead, this causes most women to drop into feeling great attitude along with you and smile right back. This genuine smile she returns is her way of welcoming you; it’s an invitation to continue communicating with her and says that she is receptive to more of the interaction.

Of course, taking it to the next level would be making an observation. Getting good observation skills takes practice but simply put, it’s noticing something interesting TO YOU about her or the environment and sharing that observation with her. This happened to me yesterday as I noticed a tattoo on the coffee girl’s neck after placing my order. My next words were, “Wow, that HAD to hurt!” and she replied with a smile, “Like you wouldn’t believe!” This led to many more questions about her tattoo while I am standing there waiting for my coffee.

Playing with the money was the next natural thing for me to do. It allowed the girl to see me in a playful way and increased the attraction she felt. When I went back to the coffee shop today, the same girl lit up like a Christmas tree when I walked into the room and opened the conversation with me.

Big lesson here – Trust this advice! Set the tone for how a woman should treat and think of you then act as if she is already thinking of you that way. She will follow your lead.

said December 29, 2011 at 11:36 pm

the best way is to be your self and funny my friend … if i want i will date 10 girls a day…it s easy try first and go to the next…try 10 girls and you will get 2 out of 10 belive me
said (morocco)

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