Hey, Bobby here.
You see hot girls everyday, buy it’s rare to find a girl who has the “complete package.”
You know what I’m talking about: those girls who are hot and sexy, but also have the kind of exciting and fun personality that makes you want to spend time with them (outside of the bedroom).
This is the type of girl that guys usually get infatuated with. They think a “complete package girl” is so rare and special that they will do almost ANYTHING to try and please her.
Once they get her interested, a lot of guys start stressing about how to keep her interested…and it ends up being no fun at all.
How would you like to know how to get a girl obsessed with you?
What are you going to do if you meet a girl like this TODAY?
Confession: I have been one of those do-anything guys. A long time ago, before I started writing about dating, I met one particularly stunning girl.
She had this kind of exotic ethnic mix that made her totally hot in a way that was unlike any other girl I’d met before. But she also had a sharp sense of humor and a cool, easy-going personality that was just as much of a turn-on as her looks.
Lots of guys liked her – girls like that always have a kind of following.
I had just started working and she was still in school, so I could afford to take her out to nicer places than her college guy friends could.
This made me kinda confident for the first few weeks. It seemed like she was into me a little bit, and I got more attracted to her every time I saw her.
But it felt too casual to me, and I’d still see her hanging out with her other guy friends, some of who were very aggressive with their flirting.
Her casual attitude towards me and the stiff competition made me stressed out. I tried to buy more affection from her with all kinds of shit: gold earrings, an iPhone, expensive chocolate.
But it didn’t work – She still paid attention to me, but it was obvious that I liked her way more than she liked me.
Eventually, I started hearing excuses about why she couldn’t meet up with me, and she wouldn’t return my calls until days later, if at all.
She finally broke it off with me in a text message. The text said something about how we had just been “casual” but now she had found someone “serious” that she really connected with.
I spent the next week thinking about what I could have done differently…I thought of a hundred things. I know you’ve probably been there too, because most guys have.
The more you like a girl, the more crazy stuff you are willing to do (and to buy) to try and earn affection from her. What you are actually doing, though, is creating a dynamic that is never going to work out for you.
You are doing ALL the chasing and she has ALL the power to decide where the relationship goes (or doesn’t go).
Guys naturally want to force the issue by doing more and more stuff for a girl…but you have to break this habit.
You can’t change this dynamic unless you break with “tradition.”
This video has very specific ideas about how to do that. Watch it, then tune in for the next email, because I am going into more specifics about how to change this dynamic.
Do it right and not only will you get to make the decisions, she will actually be the one who is chasing you…you can just sit back and let it happen.
Look, I think this is important stuff to know.
When I look back at my past, I’m not worried about not sleeping with many girls in high school or college.
But I still do regret some of the obvious mistakes I made with those cool girls that I was really into.
That’s why I personally think its so important to understand how you can build lasting attraction with the kind of girl that you really want to spend time with.
So watch the video and learn what you need to do.
Make it happen!