Fun and Sexy, Baby

Here is a secret that is not often talked about…

Women are rooting for you.

Yes, they want you to succeed.

They want you to hook them into a great conversation.  They want to feel an intense connection.  They want “butterflies.”  They want to be seduced.  And yes, they want to have sex.

They are willing to cut you A LOT of slack.

A lot of the information out there tries to make picking up chicks seem like this “mystical” thing with layers and layers of information you need to know…

But the truth is…

You don’t have to be SPECTACULAR…

You just have to be good enough…

You’ve probably sat and watched as a guy picked up a beautiful woman and thought “He didn’t say anything that great…”

The bar is NOT that high.

You just have to be slightly better than the guys around you.

And you win.

Make Your Conversations “Pop”

Years after that “incident” in the sorority house I spoke about earlier… where I watched a girl who has just kissed me unprovoked… walk away…

I finally got “it.”

The conversation has to be fun and sexy.

That’s it.

That has ALWAYS been it.

Fun and sexy.

It was like flicking a light switch and filling a dark room with light.  All of the sudden everything became crystal clear.  And I felt a sense of excitement about going out to talk to women that I never experienced before.

The best way I can describe it was sort of like the feeling you get when your adrenaline is pumping from a shot of caffeine, or the surge of relaxed confidence a good beer buzz usually provides…

It’s like you begin to see the world as completely limitless. ANYTHING is possible.  Almost like you’re escaping from this imaginary shell that has enclosed you all of your life…

FUN and SEXY.

Turn the page to read the “6 Qualities of a Sexy Conversation“…