My Review of Elixir of Eros

Every time you approach a new girl there are moments when you know that if you say or do the "right thing" you will spark her interest, make her more attracted to you and even get her to want to have sex with you.

But how often do you actually say or do the "right thing"? And if you want to get her back to your place, you have to string together several "right things." For many guys, this seems impossible, especially if they are attempting to seduce a girl who they really, really want. Even if you have gotten her attention, one misstep can undo everything and leave you embarrassed and thinking that it would have been better if you hadn't approached her in the first place because she was "out of your league."

No woman is out of your league

Mike Wright's Elixir of Eros was written to help guys who struggle with these confidence-killing situations and guys who constantly think they are "out of her league." If you buy into the viewpoint of this program, no woman alive is beyond your natural seduction abilities.

It's obvious that a lot of research went into this program. A lot of what Mike teaches is based on science and on knowledge about desire and emotion that goes all the way back to ancient times.

So in one sense, there are no new ingredients in Elixir. However, the way that Mike shows guys how to use this knowledge is very fresh and different from almost all of the other pick up artist programs out there.

For guys who have been frustrated again and again, something radically different like Elixir of Eros is certainly worth more than a quick read.

A simple solution that you haven't think of before

Mike teaches guys that everything you need to trigger desire, lust and feelings of infatuation in a girl occurs naturally. The natural sexual tension between males and females is always there, so you don't have to say or do anything to create it, you just have to know how to tap into it. Elixir of Eros is all about learning how to take advantage of this natural energy by using "triggers" to spark her desire.

I was actually a bit frustrated when I first read about the natural sexual tension idea. Not because the triggers seemed difficult to master (they are quite the opposite in fact), but because I realized that there were so many times that I had tried some stupid line or outrageous action to get a girl's attention when a much simpler, more natural approach would have actually worked.

Never get rejected again

The other main subject of Elixir of Eros is confidence-building. Mike breaks down the triggers so that they are really small, simple actions. So even guys who struggle with shyness or guys whose confidence has been totally shot can use the triggers to get her interested AND to build their confidence without making any major, aggressive moves that run the risk being shot down spectacularly.

Because this approach is so different, most of the woman you approach probably aren't even going to be be aware of what you are doing until they feel that naturally-occurring desire.

Elixir takes the whole confidence-building a step further. Mike teaches the importance of changing your mindset. For example, he writes that all guys have qualities that women will find attractive and that will make them consider you a possible sexual partner, but most guys do not know how to bring out these qualities and showcase them. So Elixir spends time teaching guys how put the spotlight on the qualities that turn women on.

Mike explains that this is something that any guy can do right away because the traits have nothing to do with being fit or having a big back account.

Immediate improvement AND long term success

The reason I was excited after going through Elixir of Eros for the first time is that it offers guys a chance for immediate improvement. The change in mindset and approach are things that you can start applying right away. As soon as you see that it works, then there is going to be a big spike in your confidence level.

Most programs leave it at that. They figure "at least these guys will think they got their money's worth."

But Elixir gives guys the knowledge and tools to continue to build on this first success. This is why I feel confident that if you keep going with this program and its ideas, no female will be "out of your league."

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Fun Riddles Over Text

by Bobby Rio


Since so many people enjoyed Race’s last article providing some ways to re-engage a girl who has stopped answering your texts. I asked him to write another article for my readers.

btw- Race has some more really solid texting advice here.

How to Use Fun Riddles to Kick Start New Conversation

By Race DePreist

guy making girl laughHave you ever had the experience where you had a great text interaction with a girl and then you run out of things to say? Or perhaps it has been a day or two since your last interaction. It ended well but you are stuck on how to start it up again without sounding needy or overbearing.

This used to happen to me all the time. Then one day a friend I hadn’t talked to in a while sent me a riddle. Without thinking this odd or random that he would text me out of the blue, a strange thing happened. My brain immediately went to work trying to figure out the answer. It totally distracted me from what I might have normally thought or felt getting a text from someone I hadn’t heard from in a while.

Now even if it hasn’t been a while since you talked to a certain girl, this still works wonders. It is a fun way to effortlessly slip into a new conversation thread with a girl. Her mind will immediately be pre-occupied with figuring out (or if she is lazy, finding out) the answer to the riddle.

You have grabbed her attention completely. After all, our brains are wired to immediately search for answers as soon as we ask it questions.

Let’s check out 2 of my favorite’s that I use all the time.

Q: What has a bottom at the top?
A: Your legs 🙂

Q: What is brown and sticky?
A: a stick 🙂

The best part is that when you use one of these silly riddles, not only will you be starting a new conversation effortlessly but she will already be in a good mood because the answer is funny.

Here I’ll show you these two riddle in action.

In Action:

3 Questions that Turn Her OnRace: what’s brown and sticky? 3:03 PM
Marisa: Umm? 4:44 PM
Race: a stick 🙂 4:46 PM
Marisa: Ur a dork:) 5:16 PM
Race: haha so you have noticed 5:17 PM
Marisa: But i like it;) 6:30 PM
Race: i am excited for sunday 🙂 7:18 PM
Marisa: Me too me too:) 9:46 PM
Marisa: Wher r u? U should come hangout! 2:14 AM
Race: Where? 2:46 AM
Marisa: XS 2:50 AM
Race: Ooh la vanity. How is it? 2:53 AM
Marisa: Fun.. U should come thru…i wanna see u! 2:54 AM
Marisa: ?? 3:32 AM
Marisa: Ummm? 4:06 AM

(I think she really wanted to hang out but I fell asleep..oops)

In Action:

Race: what has a bottom at the top? -Race 10:49 AM
Lauren: hmmmm…? 10:50 AM
Race: your legs of course 😉 10:52 AM
Lauren: lol…clever 10:54 AM
Race: i think it was one of my nephews favorite jokes a while back lol 11:00 AM
Lauren: I like those corny jokes ; ) Heres one for you…How do you wake up Lady Gaga? 1:08 PM
Race: haha poke her face I am assuming…that was a facebook update phenomenon a while back 1:09 PM
Lauren: oh it was…lol…my students told me that…What did the little mountain say to the big mt? 1:10 PM
Race: Ooh you got me on that one 1:12 PM
Lauren: “Hi Cliff!” 1:12 PM
Race: Haha nice one 1:53 PM

Often times girls will throw a riddle back at you. This is a great way to learn new ones that you can use in the future. One time I went 2 hrs with a girl sending new riddles back and forth. Not only was it fun but I got a lot of brain exercise in that day.

Another funny side affect of using riddles to start up new conversations is sometimes you will get back some pretty funny replies from clever girls. Check out this one I got just yesterday.

Race: what has a bottom at the top? 11:59 AM
Sara: A gayman 12:00 PM
Race: haha clever…I was going to say your legs 12:00 PM
Sara: My punchlines better 🙂 12:01 PM
Race: do you want a cookie or perhaps a gold star? 12:12 PM
Sara: Gold star gold star!!! 12:19 PM

Pretty funny huh?

There are thousands of silly riddles like this. Just google “silly riddles” and find some. You want them to be a one liner and have a funny answer.

After the riddle you can simply transition into a normal conversation using the tips and techniques in Text That Girl.

Q: Who is getting out their phone right now to send a riddle to a girl?

Ok so that wasn’t actually a riddle but you get the idea. Have fun with this one.

And if you like this structure, check out more of my examples and structures for texting here.



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Screen Shot 2014-06-17 at 11.33.11 AMMy friend Race shared this with me the other day and I thought it was great…

So I asked him if I can share it with you and he said definitely.

So here it is…

btw- Race has some more really solid texting advice here.


The “It’s not your fault” technique.

Ever wonder what is going through a woman’s mind when she reads your text and doesn’t respond?

What if it is your second or third one in a row with no response? I have already covered a bunch of possibilities in TEXT THAT
, but right now I want to tell you about one in specific that I didn’t go over and how to deal with it.


Often times when a woman doesn’t respond after a couple texts she feels guilty (among other things) if you keep texting her. Especially because in the past when this has happened with other guys they would get angry and send rude texts even though she didn’t mean to hurt their feelings.

But not you my friend!

You are about to learn the super secret “It’s not your fault” technique.

The “It’s not your fault” technique

The reason this technique works so well is that it gives the girl an excuse for not responding to you. And a fun one at that! It has nothing to do with you (you are awesome after all), she was just caught up in something.

Not only that, it more often than not leads you right into a fun role-play. And as you know from TEXT THAT GIRL, role-playing is a powerful way to build attraction.

The “It’s not your fault” technique is broken into 3 parts. Once you understand the parts, you can make up hundreds of your own personal, unique texts that will have that one that got away clamoring to text you back.

Ready to see how it works? I thought so.


1. well it is obvious…

Start off by creating a funny reason she hasn’t been able to text you back. As you will see in a second, it can be anything from joining the circus to being abducted by aliens.

2. the creative middle

Next you add in a funny/ teasing event or part of the situation that happened during the event that is clearly keeping her from texting you back. It can be something you hope happened to her or something you hope didn’t happen to her. It can be something she had to do or is in the middle of doing. For example, if it was joining the circus it could have to do with her having to shovel elephant poop or teaching penguins to do cartwheels.

3. the hook

Now we come to the part where you compel her to respond. Simply tell her that when she is finished with whatever she is doing, get’s back, escapes, etc to text you back. I like to add that I have a question for her or I have a fun idea at the end. This is just a little extra something that encourages her even more to respond by piquing her curiosity. It is very powerful. I usually just make up a question if she asks. Often it is seeding an invite to meeting
up that week. For example: “Have you ever been to (insert bar/coffee shop/park/ etc)?”

Are you ready to see what this looks like all put together?

Check check check it out.

Example 1:

well it is obvious you were abducted by aliens…i hope they were the hot brad pitt looking kind and not the ugly green ones…when they return you give me a text i have a question for ya

Example 2:

well it is obvious you ran off to join the circus so when you finish braiding the bearded lady’s face shoot me a text I have a quick question for you

Example 3:

well it is obvious you finally pursued your dream of becoming a mermaid…when you are done singing songs with your underwater friends send me a text i have a fun idea

(get dozens of more examples here)

Pretty cool huh?

Now imagine a girl or even a buddy sent you this text. You better bet your ass you would be laughing and want to respond.

Now get your phone out and give it a try!

And if you like this structure, check out more of my examples and structures for texting here.



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Me and my buddy Dr. David Tan love to talk about the “psychology” of attracting and seducing women.

He harps on a principle called “effort justification”.

It’s the psychological law that states “the more effort we put into something, the more we want it.”

This law is the reason why us men go CRAZY over women who are “hard to get”.

Because winning her over demands a LOT of effort.

But here’s the thing:

The rule goes both ways.

When a woman senses you are putting effort in to “win her over”, 99% of the time she quickly loses interest.

It’s the catch 22.

Her dream man is a guy who SHE has to work for.

[Here’s How To Manipulate This “Law” To Get In Her Pants]

Look, I’m not saying it’s impossible to “win a girl over” by putting in a bunch of effort…

Buying her stuff… taking her on expensive dates… complimenting her… using “attraction techniques” that scream “THIS GUY IS A TRY HARD”.

She’s just probably not going to fall in love with you, or get obsessed with you. You’ll be “just another guy” who she sleeps with. And if you’re lucky (or she’s really desperate) she’ll let you date her for a few months.

And do you really want a girl that only “kind of” digs you?

I don’t.

The only way to get her CRAZY about you, is you can make HER work for YOU.

And here’s the cool part that Dr. David ALWAYS mentions when we talk…

It doesn’t matter if you’re 350 pound slob who lives with mom and dad…

If you know how to compel HER to put in effort to win YOU over, she’s going to “justify” it to herself. She’ll tell herself, “wow, I’m putting all this effort in, I must really be into this guy.”

This works because of the psychological law of “effort justification”.

Women backwards rationalize. When they work for something, they automatically convince themselves they want it.

And Dr. David Tan figured out how any guy can use this to get a girl he wants:

[check it out]

Imagine that…

The girl you’ve been thinking about, almost magically begins to put in all the effort to win your affection… and get in your pants.

While you sit back, relax and enjoy the fun.

Well, that’s now possible with a simple, step-by-step system Dr. David created that gets HER chasing YOU…

You can see a live demonstration of it in action here

But hurry, David told me this presentation is only going out to a limited number of guys.

When it reaches it’s “cap”, it’s gone for good.

Alright man, I’m out.

Make it happen!



16987934_mlSo today, I introduce you to my good friend and Dating Coach Jason Capital.

He’s a guy I’ve hung out with recently in New York and Las Vegas…

And I was pretty impressed with his style so I asked him to write a guest newsletter for my subscribers. –

This is a very indepth newsletter, filled with solid examples, step by step instructions… and no fluff.


( I also have an interviewed planned for later in the week)

Jason just released his newest book called”77 Ways To Make Her Want To F*ck You”, and I’ll be straight:

It’s pretty ridiculously awesome.

Check it out here – I HIGHLY recommend it.

The book is filled with 77 different ways to make any girl want to f*ck you (whole book is 150+ pages).

He calls it the “street smart seducer’s bible”.

(BTW, it is only available for a short time this week, and then it’s only available in stores offline, if you can find it.)

Some of the “77 Ways” are word-for-word, others are more strategic, some are games that do the work for you and some are downright crazy…

But they’re all based on HIS OWN and his client’s experiences.

Translation: They’ve all been TESTED and PROVEN to work, to make the girl you want feel the intense desire to f*ck you sooner rather than later.

Anyways, I got him to share one of “The 77 Ways” free with my most-dedicated guys, so check it out below from Jason and I’ll see
you in a couple days with more, as I scored an exclusive interview for us with the infamous Capital 🙂

His article is below…

Enjoy man.

-Bobby R.


Method #28: Make It Her Fault!

By Jason Capital, “77 Ways To Make Her Want To F*ck You”

Framing, and frame control, really is the coolest thing ever.

I heart it so hard.

But I don’t mean that in a power-hungry way. Not at all, actually..

You can know everything you want about frame control but unless you actually live like a badass when people aren’t watching too,
you’re not going to be able to influence anyone, or any girl for that matter. However..

If you are a badass, and you know how to use frame control and framing to your advantage, you now have the easy ability to create insane amounts of positive, sexual excitement with your girls.

The reason why is simple: Most girls “frames” are highly moldable.

This isn’t a bad thing. Not even a little. At its core, this is a big reason why women are so awesome. It’s why..

They’re open, perceptive and fluid, and..

This is totally fvcking awesome for seducing her the way she wants to be seduced..

Check it: Whatever frame you’re acting through with a girl (and you’re truly committed to the frame), she will take it on and act through that frame herself.

Like, I don’t know, for instance, what if your frame was that SHE is making YOU like her?

Best. Frame. Ever.

This is Method #28, the two-step formula I use over and over in almost every seduction..

It goes like this:

Step 1. Blame my attraction, escalation or any other sexual thoughts on her (this is my frame, that it’s her fault)

Step 2. Take it away (this creates the space for maximum sexual tension)

Let’s go to the big screen for an example here:

You’re with a girl you met 15 minutes ago.

It’s clearly on – you guys are flirting, playful touching, eye contact, the whole 9.

But you want to step it up a notch and really turn the heat up.

You look at her and say, “Seriously, why are you doing this to me? Making me like you and thinking about kissing you. Not fair.” (STEP 1)

She laughs and says, “Me!? You! You’re making me think about all that stuff!”

You smirk and calmly reply, “It wouldn’t matter anyways. Cute girls are always so unimaginative in bed.” (STEP 2)

She shrieks in delight and smacks you on the arm as you pull her in and kiss the fvck out of her.

This making sense?

Good, it should.

Ask yourself now: What are some funny things you could say that would blame your attraction for her ON HER?

Here’s a quick brain dump of mine (STEP 1):

  • Why are you doing this to me? You’re the worst. I hate you.
  • Seriously, stop it. Stop looking at me like that. Don’t smile
  • at me like that either.
  • Are you trying to hypnotize me with your eyes right now?
  • Why are you making me think these thoughts about you?
  • You know, it’s really not cool to be so cute and charming. Not fair.
  • Do you seduce every guy like this?
  • It’s really not fair of you to make me feel this way about you.
  • How did you know I have a weakness for brunettes from Southern
  • Cali? You’re doing this on purpose, aren’t you…I’m on to your tricks
    little one.
  • -And so on.

Here are the two different ways I find it most fun to “take away” after you blame it on her.. (STEP 2):

1. The “I can’t even talk to you anymore”..


  • I can’t even look at you anymore, stop it, turn the other way..
    (as you playfully turn her the other way)
  • I can’t even talk to you anymore, seriously, zip it, shut yourmouth now..
    (as you playfully close her lips with your hands)
  • You’re the worst. I hate everything about you, especially how
    you make me feel when you smile and laugh. Seriously. Stop it. Now.
    Leave. Get out of here. (and then of course, I playfully push her
    away before pulling her back in for a kiss)

2. Creating a real or fake barrier.

Barriers put attraction on steroids.

Think of Romeo and Juliet..

How much of their love affair was spurred by both of their families not wanting them to hook up, or aka.. ACTING AS A BARRIER.



  • – It wouldn’t matter anyways…cute girls are always bad in bed.And boring. Fvccckkkk.. So boring.
  • It doesn’t matter anyways, that guy there is really into you, we could never do that to him..

That last one is one of my personal favs..

You just pick out a random guy in the bar and pretend he has a huge crush on the girl you’re talking to and you guys can’t hook up
because “you couldn’t do that to him”…even though neither of you know him at all. See..

..fake barriers work just as well as real ones. They spark the same emotions.

This is one of the greatest things you could ever do with a girl, and you can bring it up FOREVER as an inside joke between you two, sparking that same emotion of INTENSE ATTRACTION every single time.

That tip right there is worth the entire investment of this book. You’re welcome 🙂

And hey, if you somehow got access to this method, Method #2 of The 77 Ways, through Bobby, I hope you got a lot out of it.

Come join us inside and get access to the rest of the 77 methods

Peace beast.

-Jason Capital


Hey… Bobby here again…

I hope you enjoyed Jason’s article. I told you it was in depth.

And his book is exactly the same. Full of indepth examples and strategies…

Check it out…

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