Mistakes Men Make Flirting With Women

by Bobby Rio

Man displaying how to flirt

Flirting Tips and Mistakes to Avoid

Almost every guy who is successful with women is good at flirting with girls.  It is one of the most common traits amongst “players.”  However, if you don’t know how to flirt properly you might find yourself frustrated with the lack of results.  In this article I will discuss the most common mistakes men make when learning how to flirt with women.

1.  They don’t create a fun and playful vibe.

Contrary to how a lot of movies and television portray the concept of attraction, a woman becomes attracted to the man who she views as fun and playful.  Too many men think that attraction occurs on a logical level.  This causes them to try to get serious with women, talk intellectually, and present a logical argument for why she should feel attraction for him.  But attraction isn’t logical.

This is why it is important to be fun and playful with your flirting.  When a woman is meeting you for the first time, before she cares about how great of a guy you are… she wants to know if she can have fun with you.  Because if she is bored, chances are you won’t have enough time to spark attraction.

2.  They go overboard on their teasing

Many men realize that teasing a woman is one of the best ways to flirt with women.  Unfortunately, they go about it all wrong.  Too many men use sarcastic teases that comes across as mean and hurtful rather than the playful vibe that flirting is supposed to possess.

The best way to remember to keep it playful (and not hurtful) is to just avoid sarcasm and instead go for playground humor. Playground humor is that immature style of humor you used to tease your childhood crush with back on the playground in the fourth grade.  It worked then… it works now.

3.  They worry too much about what a woman thinks of them

Here is a secret to flirting:  If you learn how to flirt with women the right way… you will be so far above the rest of the competition that she will be like putty in your hands.  The problem is, most guys are so worried what the woman will think of them, that they become awkward, stiff, nervous, cautious, and boring.  And remember, women HATE boring guys.

Now that you’ve learned some flirting techniques and flirting tips, it is time to go out there and practice them.  If you really want to get better at flirting, you’ll need to be out there talking to women.

{ 3 comments… read them below or add one }

Joseph July 26, 2011 at 7:52 am

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Jr. September 7, 2011 at 8:59 pm

Dude, your are a GENIUS! I swear, I’ve learn more about how to talk, flirt, create attraction with women in three days by listening to you than all this other things I’ve been reading online. I really appreciate the time and heart you put into these techniques, including your own experience, to help guys like us who didn’t know how to be around a woman. Big UPs to you. Out of all the guys I’ve listening to or read about, YOU ARE THE REAL SHIT, excuse my language. I hope to get more of your books, videos and stuffs. You can e-mail me anytime. Thanks man. Peace

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