Banter Lines

Teasing & Banter CHEAT SHEET



Bonus Video: 4 Best Conversation Topics Video

4 Topics Explained…

What if I told you that by simply remembering to string these four topics together you could talk to girls for hours without ever running out of things to say, or risk falling into boring ‘interview mode’. It is as easy as following this four topic slide…

These topics are so effective because they cover 6 traits: Build rapport, elicit an emotional state, make you 3 dimensional, provide hooks, highlights attractive qualities, lead to sexuality.

The Slide:

Here are the four topics: Glorified gossip (think Jerry Springer), Childhood references (think playground), Future ambitions (think ideal life), and Observations about her (think cold reads)

Beginning with glorified gossip like an interesting story about your friend’s love life you engage her, talking about childhood memories creates a fun atmosphere, asking about her future ambitions builds powerful connection, and stating your observations about her allows for attraction and the buildup of sexual tension.

That may not sound like a lot but this little roadmap, will keep you moving forward in every conversation you have with a woman.

While talking about these four topics you will need to sprinkle in the attraction triggers I am going to talk about on the next page… that guarantees you’ll be escalating towards a kiss each time- and never run the risk of her seeing you as a ‘nice guy’ or worse, facing awkward uncomfortable silences…

Obviously there are other topics that you can use (I’ve identified 12 in total) and other ways to make small talk sexy. I’ve discovered what I consider to be the breakthrough revelation when it comes to having a fun, flirtatious, and sexual conversation with a woman and Make Small Talk Sexy.

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Bobby what do you think November 22, 2011 at 1:37 am

Assume you are at Starbucks and a hot girl is sitting down with 40 other ppl including men and women of all ages. You walk in order you Frap or what ever and leave. How does a guy walk in to a starbucks with 40 other ppl with 1 OBVIOUS hot chick in there, and approach her right infront of eveyone open her, banter, talk sexual in a fun way get her digits and hook up with her that same night and have sex with her is what I want to know. The bar is it’s own animal, I want to know how it can be done in NORMAL society? I would not be able to talk normal to her knowing everysingle person in that Starbucks is staring at me while I hit on the hottest chick in the place which EVERYONE is fully aware of and 15 guys in there have their eyes on here like a hawk. Also when I do that I notice men in the immediate vicinity completley change, I see the anger in their face, the jealousy and I just let the girl go and these thoughts usually prevent me from taking action, due to the men around. It’s wierd because it seems like I have too much respect for men and care about what they think more than sleeping with beautiful women and it has cost me many years of sex with women I should have had.

matrix December 19, 2011 at 8:46 am

bobby i dealing with a gal i have history with andf havent used a great deal of bantering ….it’s a deal that i must increase attraction as quick and effective!…she’s pretty slick at this and i want the upper hand…btw: i’ve been holding my own and been patient. gotta step it up!….Thanks ….matrix

Drew December 19, 2011 at 10:05 pm

I don’t like to go into night clubs.I also don’t like big crowds, so do you have advice for approaching women in daylight hours.

webster_bing December 23, 2011 at 11:00 am

this is what i want.

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Twiggy January 8, 2012 at 8:54 am

Hi I am facing a lot of problems just thinking about how to banter. I mean I believe in it 100% but you see the women that I’m surrounded by or have a liking for are very defensive according to the culture it’s just the way they were bought up. So should still banter or use the reportive method. Can you shed some light. Cheers

pankaj kumar January 21, 2012 at 12:39 am

It was really a nice experience.

pankaj January 25, 2012 at 10:26 am

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Gutmalrt February 2, 2012 at 8:14 pm

Thanks for sharing part of your valuable experience with us.

bob February 3, 2012 at 2:52 am

got ya!

momo February 10, 2012 at 6:18 pm

thank you bobby
you’ve been very helpful

elie February 22, 2012 at 6:36 am

I need full of idea please

onome yalaju April 3, 2012 at 4:16 pm

HEY BOBBY WATS GUD, am still gettin along with the training tho, kudos 2 u 4 dat. But just wanted know if u had sexual lines i could use to a girl i just met in the plane and get her head spinning immediately, and next thing i see she’s giving me head already.

Scott April 15, 2012 at 12:12 am

Super cool. Helped so much….muhahahahhahahaha

Award April 28, 2012 at 1:20 am

I could like to more abut what to say to a girl i like

philip schlachter May 2, 2012 at 9:05 pm

dear bobby, last night i was at a party at a friends house and another buddy had agirl hes been fucking. he started to complain about how she is and how she acts and couldnt believe he was telling me this. so i started bumping into conversations then back to my other friends to conversate. this went on throughout the night. by the end of the night my friend was standing talking to another girl as i talked to his girlfor over have the night. she would actually go out of her way to talk to me. i had her laughing talking to me and touching me and complaining about her man. even puting out big sighs. i couldnt tell if im his replacement or what. then she got my number and went to bed. latter my friend followed her. but the whole time i was using some of the stuff im learning in your program on her and she was eating it out of my hand. i dont know if shell call but it really dont matter it was fun and exciting to get her there! but if she does call ill close the deal!

Ricky May 4, 2012 at 2:50 am

Yo jello was that really you!
Yo did Jello Biafra really post on this, or is someone a nazi jock punk.

wilson May 20, 2012 at 4:47 am

Hey I’m alwayz scared of walkin up 2 gals in public even on d street. Pls I need ur advice…tanx

suken May 30, 2012 at 5:49 pm

hi Bobby i hear so many g8 stluff bout u, i av a problem & need ur help i met a chinese gal 7month ago i got her number we want out 5 times i av tell her how much i like her but she kep saying she c me as a friend she’s a virgin 22. Im31 indian i really love 2 married her she’s a beautifull person. How can i make her c me more than a friend?

maga June 2, 2012 at 11:19 am

What to talk about when u first meet n dont know what to say cause u dont even know her if shell be offended or not

kaycee September 6, 2012 at 7:38 pm

am in love with this girl but am nt rily sure its ryt to ask her out cuz i met her two days ago and left town …we talk on phone and think she likes me too but i hv problem with showering my partners with love n making uncomfortable that they back out sometimes.give me tips go make my one and only

Preet November 12, 2012 at 4:22 am

I like a girl ..she talks to me often but i m unable to express myself as a flirt as u told due to which she thinks i m a bore…what should i do to get to her….there is another boy ..she talks to her more coz he is gud at it….

Tammy November 14, 2012 at 7:20 pm

@Bobby what do you think…maan have you heard of a line ‘dont give a [email protected]? will always be jealous if one man approach a hot chick..they afraid n the the chick we’ll notice that…so you can win that chick only if…you care no damn who says what..

brian August 6, 2014 at 7:36 pm

It’s all about push and pull. Push and pull is the game.. ex. I like you….. kinda (smile)…. ex. You’re pretty cool…. I just hope you don’t get on my nerves any time soon (smile).. .. The game of push and pull needs to be present during attraction, rapport, and seduction…. push and pull is the one element that you should never abandon.. that’s why they say, never stop playing the game… If you do stop, you will end up stuck in rapport or even worse
The friend zone…. never stop playing the game… and have fun with it. Stop censoring yourself. Censoring is a killer of attraction.

David Arthur Bachrach February 1, 2015 at 11:52 am

Thanks, Bobby – already seeing results. E.g., I’m a good listener, but every once in a while I used to fall into “interview” mode – however, thanks to you, never again – no more interview mode! I totally get that.
Also, I love the advice: Use statements. E.g., the other night, I started off with, “I’ve always loved classical music – do you prefer Bach or Mozart?” Well, her face lit up, and the conversation took off.
Ok, enough examples – thanks again –
On we go…

Larry Ball February 4, 2015 at 7:38 pm

good job

Amir March 3, 2015 at 11:58 am

Amazing and informative!

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